A friend recommended to read a book called
Clutter's Last Stand by Don Aslett. I ended up skimming through it, as it was all very familiar to me. I've moved 7 (going on 8) times in the last 7 or so years. Moving that many times into smaller-than-the-amount-of-stuff-we-have spaces practically cured us of our clutter and junk bug.
Here are some points Aslett brought up that I feel are worth mentioning:
- The Economy of Clutter: 80/20 Rule. "if all of a given category of items are sorted in order of value, 80% of the value will come from only 20% of the items" (p. 41).
Example: 80% of the space on our shelves is occupied by stuff we never use. 80% of beauty/hygiene routine makes use of only 20% of the cosmetics/potions we have stacked around. How much of the remaining 80% could be junked and we wouldn't miss it?
- Make no excuse just because you "own it." "Use is the only value a thing has" (p. 47). If it isn't used, or doesn't bring enjoyment or personal value--why keep it?
- Don't keep those things that are "too nice to use." "Something that is too nice to use is undoubtedly about the most ridiculous kind of junk one can own" (p. 68). I know I have things I've been saving to use until later because they are "too nice," but I've rethought that. Why wait? It reminds me of a talk I heard Pres. Monson (I think) tell about how his wife saved a blouse to wear for a "special occasion" but it was never worn. Why wait for the special day? Make every day special.
- Surplus society. We, as a society, have a ton of stuff. "Most of us have more of everything than we need: food, money, possessions, time, and attention. And after we've used what we need, we foolishly spend our time trying to use the surplus" (p. 204).
- "Simplicity doesn't mean hard times; luxury doesn't mean good times. But we too often think of more as better, convenience as comfort--and that isn't so" (p. 209).
- How to determine if something is NOT junk: it generates love and good feelings, it helps you make a living, it will do something you need done, it has significant cash value, it gives you more than it takes, it will enrich or delight the coming generation. If it is ALL these things, it is probably not junk.
- Avoid places that tempt you into getting more junk. I can attest to this--one of the ways Sam & I have been able to pay off our debts and save quickly is by avoiding shopping just for fun.
- "De-junking is the cheapest, fastest and most effective way to become physically and financially sound, emotionally and intellectually happy" (p. 269).
This book is probably worth skimming, at least. He provides good stories and examples of why we hold on to stuff, and how it adds stress and emotional fatigue unnecessarily to our lives.
While skimming it, I got rid of about 2-3 boxes of stuff (books, clothing, old magazines), and have a list of many other items, that we won't have to box up and move into our new place. Hooray!
It really is exhilarating to de-junk. Try it and see!